Interview-style behavioral question:
"Tell me about a time you had a conflict with a teammate, stakeholder, or manager. What caused the conflict, how did you handle it, and what was the final outcome?"
Answer using the STAR method:
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Situation
: Context of the conflict (project, timeline, roles).
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Task
: What your responsibility was and what you needed to achieve.
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Action
: Concrete steps you took to understand the other person’s perspective, de-escalate tension, find common ground, and move forward (e.g., 1:1 conversation, data gathering, compromise proposals).
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Result
: Outcome for the project and relationship (ideally measurable: unblocked launch, reduced defects, improved collaboration).
Focus on demonstrating that you:
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Stay calm and professional under disagreement.
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Use data and user/business impact instead of ego.
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Listen actively and incorporate valid feedback.
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Can reach a principled compromise or escalate constructively when needed.