How do you handle conflict at work?

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This question evaluates interpersonal skills such as conflict resolution, communication, accountability, and leadership by asking about a concrete disagreement with a teammate in a software engineering context.

How do you handle conflict at work?

Company: Citadel

Role: Software Engineer

Category: Behavioral & Leadership

Difficulty: medium

Interview Round: Onsite

Describe a time you had a conflict with a teammate (e.g., disagreement on technical direction, priorities, code quality, or ownership). Please cover: - What was the context and what was at stake? - What exactly was the disagreement? - What actions did you take to resolve it? - What was the outcome and what did you learn? Follow-ups: - How do you handle conflict when you’re not the decision-maker? - How do you handle conflict when you believe the other person is objectively wrong? - What would you do differently next time?

Overview: This question evaluates interpersonal skills such as conflict resolution, communication, accountability, and leadership by asking about a concrete disagreement with a teammate in a software engineering context.

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Jan 22, 2026
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Describe a time you had a conflict with a teammate (e.g., disagreement on technical direction, priorities, code quality, or ownership).

Please cover:

  • What was the context and what was at stake?
  • What exactly was the disagreement?
  • What actions did you take to resolve it?
  • What was the outcome and what did you learn?

Follow-ups:

  • How do you handle conflict when you’re not the decision-maker?
  • How do you handle conflict when you believe the other person is objectively wrong?
  • What would you do differently next time?